Okay.
Every girl, at some point in her life, pulls a crazy girlfriend move. God knows I have, many a time. But there is a line that should not be crossed.
I was talking to some of the girls at work, and biddies be crazy. Usually, I'm all about girl power, but the stories I was hearing kind of made me side with the guys a little bit.
I think that to be in a relationship with someone, a certain amount of respect must be attained. There is a level of trust you MUST have for a relationship to be successful. God knows there have been times in my relationship that I've doubted, that my boyfriend was acting sketchy and wouldn't tell me why. Most of the time I've waited and discovered that it had nothing to do with me.
It shocked me to discover how many girls automatically jump to the conclusion that their boyfriend is a scumbag. It also shocked me to discover how many girls were secretly reading their boyfriend's emails, texts, even journals. If the tables were reversed, you know those girls wouldn't put up with a guy invading their privacy like that.
I think that every girlfriend has a bit of crazy in them. I know I do, there have been a lot of moments where I've done things that I immediately wish I hadn't done.I know that my boyfriend loves me, and he trusts me, and I owe him that same respect. I've decided on my own terms to stop being crazy. I hope that my boyfriend doesn't ever take advantage of how much I trust him.
I cannot for the life of me believe how some girls can, on a regular basis, be so completely disrespectful to their partners. SERIOUSLY? One girl was telling me how she's already snooping on a guy she's not even DATING yet. Honestly, if you can't even trust a guy that hasn't done anything wrong, you need to take a step back.
I don't mean to sound like a preacher. Like I said, I'm not perfect. I just think that if girls feel like their guy isn't telling them stuff, maybe it's because guys can't trust a girl who's not showing them any respect.
love-
Candy
